Humans have unlimited potential. The thing is though, too many of us today don’t think highly of ourselves. But usually, it’s really just our minds playing tricks on us. Here are some limiting beliefs you need to watch out for.
I don’t have enough time
Sometimes this can be true but saying it too much can cause us to believe that it’s actually true. The thing is though, you do have time and sometimes you just don’t notice where you’re wasting it. Today, the most common thing that wastes our time is social media. No matter where you are in Singapore, you’ll see people stuck scrolling on their phones for hours. If you think about it, you can do so much more instead of just keeping your eyes glued to your phone.
I’m not like them
Another limiting belief that can be caused by social media is comparison. Although, in this case, social media isn’t the only culprit. Comparing yourself to others can really put you in a bad position when it comes to self-consciousness. If you do find that you’re already comparing yourself to others, remember that we all have different upbringings. Though some are more fortunate, they still have their own ups and downs just like you. So, there’s no need to think that you can’t live a certain way because you’re not as good as others.
Others might judge me
Another very common limiting belief we say to ourselves is to just avoid doing something so that we won’t get judged. For example, you plan to go jogging in a park somewhere in Singapore but decide not to because many other runners already look fit while you’re there just starting your weight loss journey. What you should remember is, people generally only pay attention to themselves. They have their own problems and reasons to go jogging, so they won’t really mind another person they have nothing to do with.
One needs to struggle to succeed
Of course, it’s true that we need to work hard to succeed in life. But that doesn’t mean that you have to suffer during the process. This is limiting belief is not something we have at the start. It’s usually a mindset that we begin to develop, especially when we start having a hard time. But you should remember that struggling does not equate to hard work. If you align your actions accordingly to meet your goals, you’ll rarely develop this self-limiting mindset.
I don’t know what I want yet
Another excuse we usually say to ourselves is that we’re still not sure what we really want to do with our lives yet. Even so, this is really not a good excuse to stop yourself from growing up and exploring new things. You’ll never find out exactly what you want if you stay there doing nothing. But that’s the thing too, you’re not exactly doing “nothing”. You’ll usually learn more about yourself by simply looking at your current lifestyle.